anaheim-gazette 1964-10-28

Rhyme and Reason By LOUISE METEER Sister rides a magic carpet Flying through a wondrous land, Making small talk with an elfin I could never understand. Let her dream; I shall not call her From that land she walks alone. All too soon her clock chimes midnight, And I'll find find my Darling grown. The piano where she practiced And the dishes that she broke. All the songs she sweetly trebled, And the verses that she spoke, I shall weave into a pattern That is bright and sweet and gay; It will be the magic carpet Of her mother's Yesterday. Little girls, and big girls, must have time for dreaming. This is one of our greatest lacks today. We have filled every waking moment so brim-full of "something to do" that there is no time for dreaming. We push our children rapidly toward what we are pleased to call maturity. We give our daughters permanents when they are mere babies, and tease them about their boy friends when they are 8 or 10. "What are you going to do?" we ask them. "What are you going to be?" Then we hurry round pushing them in the direction we have chosen for them, and all too often that is the direction WE wanted to go when WE were young, and could not. Any similarity between that So Mamma wanted to be a concert pianist. Then let her take lessons now, and leave the child to dramatics, singing, or nothing! The child will find its own way if you but hearken to the dictates of its heart. It is such a bitter lesson to learn, at last, quite indubitably, that Mother does not alwavys know best. If I were asked what is the most important ingredient in the recipe for successful child upbringing, it would be like them: a place to dream in. I should prefer a tree, with strong, leafed-out branches, where she could sit, well above the world, looking down upon her dreaming. A tree can be many things; its strong trunk Prince Charm-sitting on a White Charger, which one may grasp, while (Who shall say that it is only a limb?) It can be a stage from which to address the world with such voice that only the birds may hear! It can be a cradle swinging softly: "Rocka-abye baby...". Somehow, in the dreaming, a small girl grows into her own pattern of self-awareness, becomes the individual that God intended her to be. There she can forget her freckles, the braces on her teeth, and the skinny leanness of her form, to be for a little while, a Beauty. Whatever her magic carpet, let her stay on it for a little while, and prod not into her innermost thoughts about it. Teach her only that there is a difference between dreaming and doing, though the one may be the outcome of the other, for soon enough will come that day when she must climb down to join the rest of us who somehow have traded dreams for cyni- Women Hold Ins The Women’s Council Chairter of the Santa Ana-Orange Tustin Board of Realtors hold an installation ban Nov. 6, at 7 p.m. at Stoufford Restaurant in Town and Country. The newly elected officers in 1965 are Connie Fisher, president; Betty Miller, vice-president; Rachel Hackett, secretary; Clara Allison, treasurer. The installing officer will Yvonne Carney, who is Governor of Southern California Women’s Council. Isabel Mitchell, 1952 president of Women Council of the National Association of Real Estate Boards; be the guest speaker. The ten of her talk will be, "What Woman’s Council means to work in Real Estate." Carl Mock, honorary member of the local chapter and Lore Gale of Milford, New Hampshire. Xi Beta Alphas See Geology As Important Origin of Life Xi Beta Alpha chapter, Beta Sigma Phi, met in the home of Mrs. William Callahan on October 21. The evening started with a very interesting display of slides of the Grand Canyon, while narration of the program "The Origin of Life" was presented on tape by Mrs. William Fawcett. Then slides were shown on the correct procedures for wearing the Sorority badge, with its accompanying guards. New appointments announced by the board were as follows: vice-president, Mrs. Toni Pollard; corresponding secretary, Mrs. Harold Patterson; photographer and historian, Mrs. Jerry Ahrens; press chairman, Mrs. William Callahan; council representative-Mrs. Charles Weiderhaft; and second alternate to Council, Miss Edythe Grimes. Mrs. Jack Dooley of Orange announced she will be submitting her photograph to the International office as the Chapter's entry in the Valentine Queen contest. Mrs. Callahan gave a short resume of the Santa Ana Area Council breakfast which was held on Oct. 18. Mrs. L. R. Williams received a birthday remembrance from her Secret Sister, with Mrs. Dooley receiving the door prize for the evening. WRC Is Feted In Mood of Halloween The spirit of Halloween was the decor and refreshments reflected the season when Mrs. Daisy Bonecutter entertained at her home on North Pixley with 21 members of the Gordon Granger Woman's Relief Corp as guests. The afternoon was pleasantly spent planning a Christmas party to be held Dec. 16 at the home of Mrs. Hattie Buhrmann. The hostess was assisted by Mmes. Mary Robeson, Hazel Bunch and Eda Battig. Retired? Maybe! The name of Rex Parks is the usual prominence accorded a city councilman. The name Marguerite Parks is almost well known. It's synonymous service in the community, for quick smile, and the 'soft wry that turneth away wrath." Mrs. Parks is prominent in Soroptimist Club of Orange, is a member of long standing Business and Professional Women's Club, She has served on more committees, held many offices than she can count. When she stands to give classification at Soroptimist luncheons she always says, "tired. Housewife." It wasn't ways that way. She worked on the old First National Bank Orange before marriage, spared 14 years as executive secretary to the Superintendent of Oran Unified School District, before retirement, and before that 19 years with the Orange Building and Loan. She is the mother of one daughter, Mrs. Ralph Wood and has a granddaughter. 'All this,' says Marguerite "must make me .102!" Don't y believe it. WITCHES THROW — When California School has its Halloween carnival next Saturday this old witch will have her mouth full of beanbags! Cythia Daggett and Irene Newport, (left to right), young John Hires and their Souder, got in a little practice Women Realtors Hold Installation The Women's Council Chapel of the Santa Ana-Orange Board of Realtors will host an installation banquet on June 6, at 7 p.m. at Stouffer's restaurant in Town and Countown. The newly elected officers for the Connie Fisher president; Betty Miller, vice-president; Rachel Hackett, secretral Clara Allison, treasurer. The installing officer will be Jane Carney, who is Governer of Southern California Womnies Council. Isabel Mitchell, president of Women's Council of the National Association of Real Estate Boards will be the guest speaker. The topic of her talk will be, "What Womnies Council means to women real Estate. Mr. Mock, honorary member the local chapter and Louise of Milford, New Hampton. MRS. REX PARKS shire, 1963. National President will be special guests. Immediately following the installation the "Naughty Nineties Review," will be presented by coordinator Bonnie Lang. The cast includes James French, Gordon Livingston, James McCutchen, Robert McQuaid, Charles Murphy, Louis Poirier, Kenneth Purcell, William Ruddiman, Ronald Talley, James Webb, Donald Zeller and Robert Armstrong (at the piano), all of whom are Title Co. and Mortgage Co. employees. Church Women To Meet Annual fall lunchon for United Foursquare Women to be held Thursday in Garden Grove is bringing into focus several women of Orange who are active in the local Foursquare Church. The event is slated for 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at 13077 Century Blvd., in the Garden Grove Foursquare Church. Mrs. F. W. Deem, president, will preside. Representing the Orange group will be the pastor's wife, Mrs. Fred Cannon, Mrs. Freda Kelly, a former resident of Orange will be program chairman. She has announced the theme, SPECIALTY ITALIANO — Parent Organization president, Janet Upchurch, looks in on Mrs. Evelyn Barr, Mrs. Virgina Houghton, Mrs. Priscilla Patterson and Mrs. Jean Moon, to right), who are testing a sample of the spaghetti t served at the "Spaghetti Dinner" to be held in the McPho Woman's Viewpoint MRS. REX PARKS THE SERVES Retired? Maybe! The name of Rex Parks has unusual prominence accorded by councilman. The name Marguerite Parks is almost as known. It's synonymous for race in the community, for a smile, and the "soft word turneth away wrath." Parks is prominent in Optimist Club of Orange, and member of long standing in Business and Professional Men's Club. She has served more committees, held more events than she can count. She stands to give her affiliation at Soroptimist Neons she always says, "Re-Housewife." It wasn't al that way. She worked for Old First National Bank of Orange before marriage, spent years as executive secretary of Superintendent of Orange Red School District, before ment, and before that 14 years with the Orange Building Loan. She is the mother of oneunter, Mrs. Ralph Woods, as a granddaughter. All this," says Marguerite, "t make me 102!" Don't you love it. The event is slated for 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at 13077 Century Blvd., in the Garden Grove Foursquare Church, Mrs. F. W. Deem, president, will preside. Representing the Orange group will be the pastor's wife, Mrs. Fred Cannon. Mrs. Fred Kelly, a former resident of Orange will be program chairman. She has announced the theme, "Reaching the High Note," and will develop it in a presentation of music and special features pertaining to the Foreign mission field. The membership goal for 1965 has been set at 145 for the Southwest District. Special Awards will be given to the circles with the largest attendance and most non-members present. Mrs. Elizabeth Jones, home from an active ministry in Africa, will be guest speaker. The day's activities will be open to the public. Child care is provided. Camouflage Roof n your house too high looking? "Lower it" by painting it a dark color, advises the National Paint, Varnish and Lacquer Association. Next Saturday's the Big Day For Small Ghosts' Cavortings Children of California School are all set for their annual Halloween Carnival next Saturday on the school grounds. The public is invited from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. There will be all kinds of games, gaily decorated booths where good things can be bought to eat. Children are invited to wear their costumes. Helping out will be the sponsoring mothers of the PTA. The carnival, as in all schools, is one of the main fund raising projects of the parent groups, and also serves to keep children out of mischief on Halloween. Today THE ALMANAC By United Press International Today is Tuesday Oct. 27, the 301st day of 1964 with 65 to follow. Woman's Viewpoint Edited by Louise Meteer — 633-8400 Hand Of Welcome As Women Entertain Friendship keynotes the reception which newcomers get in Orange County, whether the hand of friendship is extended on a social plane or in the more serious world of study. Two events signifying that fact appear on the fall social calendar, the one in the future and the other just past. In a picturesque setting atop one of Santa Ana's buildings at 900 North Way, women will gather luncheon Nov. 10 with come Strangers" host events. Studio Artist A fashion extravaganza of its kind in Orange County will present as narrator H Shoup, a top fashion designer for Warner Brothers Studios. Shoup will present them in feminine attire for fair winter of 1964-65. He will sisted by Miss Dee Denzinager and fashion coordinator a Fullerton shop. Cocktails have been tiled for 11:30 a.m. with luncheon to follow. Mrs. Orville luncheon chairman reported that tickets are great demand and suggest reservations be made early calling her, 633-4900. College Welcome Little sisters, new members Fullerton Junior College City Wives Club, were escorted their big sisters, old men to "get-acquainted" lunch followed by dessert and along with a business man at the student center on campus, Saturday, Oct. 17. Mrs. Dennison C. Herr president of FWC official brief business meeting. Today THE ALMANAC By United Press International Today is Tuesday Oct. 27, the 301st day of 1964 with 65 to follow. The moon is at its last quarter. The morning stars are Jupiter, Mars and Venus. The evening stars are Saturn and Jupiter. On this day in history: Head of New York's Tammany Hall, Boss Tweed, was arrested on charges of defrauding the city. In 1904, the first practical subway began operation in New York. In 1917 before an enthusiastic audience, concert violinist Jascha Heifetz made his debut in Carnegie Hall at the age of 16. In 1961, the General Assembly of the United Nations adopted by overwhelming vote a resolution asking the Soviets not to explode a 50 megaton bomb. MISS YOUR PAPER? In the event delivery of your Orange Daily News is inadvertently missed, call 633-8400 between 6 and 7 p.m., Monday thru Friday. 5-6 p.m. on aturday. We will be sure that the paper is delivered to your home that night. College Welcome Little sisters, new members, Fullerton Junior College city Wives Club, were escorted their big sisters, old men to "get-acquainted" lunch followed by dessert and along with a business man at the student center on the campus, Saturday, Oct. 17. Mrs. Dennison C. Herrn president of FWC officials brief business meeting. H. Lynn Sheller, wife of the liege president, gave a welcome address. The October Welcome committee, with Mrs. Jose James, hostess and Mrs. Helping Children Discussed by Should parents help children with their homework? Only indirectly, says Dorothy Wenck, Orange Home Advisor for the University of California. "To be of greatest help child let’s provide him with quiet place to work, mathe needs, and our encouragement," says Mrs. Wenck. can also help by keeping yer children from interruption during his study period. Establishing a regular for homework each day is helpful in building good habits. When possible this iod should be after a peri outdoor play and before a orite television program oner hours, Mrs. Wenck. RICE JEWELERS FINE WATCH REPAIRING 138 N. Glassell KE 8-19 We Give S&H Green Stamp Organization president, Mrs. Evelyn Barr, Mrs. Virginia and Mrs. Jean Moon, (left ample of the spaghetti to be to be held in the McPherson Junior High cafeteria Thursday, Nov. 5, from 5 to 8 p.m. Proceeds of this event are to be shared equally with the student body and tickets are now being sold by the students. (Daily News Photo) Life Saving Blood Replacement Goal Life Saving Blood Replacement Goal Mrs. Henry Edwards of Anaheim, president of Martin Lutheran Hospital Guild has announced that beginning Oct. 26, the Guild will participate in a blood replacement program. Mrs. Edwards, who has been working with Mr. George Hagen, Executive Director of the Anaheim office of the Red Cross, and Mrs. Ruth Blanchard, Los Angeles and Orange Counties Blood Service Representative of the American National Red Cross, as well as with hospital and laboratory personnel for more than 18 months of planning the Martin Luther program, will act as its chairman. Guild volunteers working with Mrs. Edwards will be Mrs. Leonard Powers of Fullerton, Mrs. Dorothy VanOrden of Garden Grove, Mrs. William Paulus of Olive, and Mrs. Robert Andrew of Anaheim. Continuing to work with the Red Cross (which is the only source of blood in Orange County), the Guild will also work with hospital laboratory secretary Mrs. Naricy Drake and laboratory medical technologist Mrs. Betty Hoefer. Medical advisor to the group will be pathologist Dr. Jacqueline Pettet. “Residents of Orange County are fortunate to receive needed blood free of charge” says Mrs. Edwards. “The only fee to the patient is for processing and cross-matching blood types. By maintaining Guild policy of direct personal contact with patients and their families, and by acting as a liaison group with the hospital laboratory and Red Cross we feel we can serve our patients and community in an active and meaningful way.” New Cub Pack College Welcome Little sisters, new members of Bullerton Junior College FaculWives Club, were escorted by their big sisters, old members, "get-acquainted" luncheons allowed by dessert and tea, along with a business meeting, in the student center on the FJC campus, Saturday, Oct. 17. Mrs. Dennison C. Herring, resident of FWC officiated the brief business meeting, Mrs. Lynn Sheller, wife of the college president, gave a welcome address. The October Welcome Tea committee, with Mrs. Joseph W. James, hostess and Mrs. George Hocke, Lawrence C. Reighn, James F. Kerr, Gordon R. Melgren, Robert E. Mitchell, Everis F. Nelson, Cecil Petit, John H. Schultz, H. Lynn Sheller, and Howard S. Wilson. Following the tea, members were given an opportunity to indicate their wishes for special interest groups. Mrs. William O. Heckman will hostess the first meeting for those interested in literature; Mrs. Dennison C. Herring will lead the first arts and crafts meeting. Members were urged to attend husband's night November 7, for a potluck and the FJC drama production, "Taming of the Shrew." Helping Children Study Discussed by Advisor Should parents help children with their homework? Only indirectly, says Mrs. Grothy Wenck, Orange County Home Advisor for the University of California. "It be of greatest help to a child let’s provide him with a quiet place to work, materials needs, and our encouragement," says Mrs. Wenck. "We can also help by keeping young children from interrupting during his study period." Establishing a regular time for homework each day is very helpful in building good study habits. When possible this period should be after a period of outdoor play and before a favorite television program of dinner hours, Mrs. Wenck sugars. We as parents should never do a child’s homework for him or allow older brothers or sisters to do it. This defeats the purpose of the homework. It may also undermine the child’s confidence in his own ability to cope with school work. TUSTIN ST. PATIO AND OUTDOOR FURNITURE SHOP QUALITY Living and dining sets in beautiful wrought iron. REDWOOD CHAISES ALUMINUM LOUNGES RECOVERS PADS UMBRELLAS AND TABLES TUSTIN STREET PATIO & OUTDOOR FURNITURE 253 SO. TUSTIN ST. Open Daily 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. FREE DELIVERY MODERN WITH MOEN SET JUST ONE CONTROL With This All-New Faucet! OLDFIELD PLUMBING 221 W. Chapman, Orange KE 8-3538