anaheim-gazette 1963-12-12

The ANAHEIM GAZETTE Women's NEWS Thursday, December 12, 1963 ANAHEIM, CALIFORNIA East Anaheim Garden Club Slates Party Wednesday East Anaheim Garden Club members will have their Christmas party and Gift Exchange at the home of Mrs. John Waite at 8 p.m. Wednesday. A short business meeting will precede the exchange. Mrs. George Johnson will preside. Tall Club's Yule Party Set Saturday The Tall Club of Orange County will hold its annual Christmas Party at 8:30 p.m. Dec. 14, at the home of Cora Wintory, 1014 Mohawk. Any member or prospective members are invited to bring a guest along if height and age requirements are fulfilled. Prospective members must be 18 to 35 years of age, men, 6'2" and women, 5'10". The club's New Years Eve party will be held at the home of Janice Young 1061 N. Rich- Mrs. Johnson will thank Mrs. Daniel Duffy and the committee for the great success of the club's recent Christmas show and Luncheon. The affair benefitted the landscape fund for Sycamore Jr. High in Anaheim. Also to speak is Mrs. Daniel Almick, Garden Therapy Chairman, who will tell the plans of her committee for the club's annual Christmas project. Assisting Mrs. Waite as co-hostess for the evening will be Mrs. D. M. Martin. Savanna Girl Wins Award From DAR Susan Tamura, a senior at Savanna, has won the "Good citizen" award from a list of fifteen girls, presented by the Daughters of the American Rev- Big Prizes Offered Seniors The Soroptimist Club of Anaheim has announced a city ship award to be made to high school senior graduate June, 1964. $2500 — an award of merit — will be paid in lump sum. It is to be used at the distribution of the winning recipient any way he may decide he will best further his aims purposes in achieving his aim. This is an outright gift awarded by the Soroptimist Foundation in recognition of outstanding contributions young people in the fields of ence, literature, education and public welfare. The Award has been established to encourage youth to develop the highest concept of triumphism and more effective operation in home, community and international fairs. The best 250 words "My Responsibility as a Citizen in the Family, in the Community and in the World" be judged on local and regional Americas, final decision rest with the trustees of Soroptimist Foundation. Ellen Courts Barr, educator chairman, is distributing nouncements of details this week to high school principals in Anaheim area. Local judging be done on February 3, 1964. Savanna Girl Wins Award From DAR Susan Tamura, a senior at Savanna, has won the "Good citizen" award from a list of fifteen girls, presented by the Daughters of the American Revolution. To receive the award, all the girls had to take a U.S. Government examination. The girls are judged in four categories; dependability, service, leadership and patriotism. The judges were five teachers, counselors, and administrators. Sociologist Reports Danger Signals Precede Marriages Which Fail How can young people approaching the age of marriage develop the kind of insight required to decide on a lifetime association? Sociologists Judson T. Landis and Mary G. Landis answer this and countless other crucial questions. "In most marriages that fail, especially those that fail early, there were danger signals which might have warned the dating couple against trying to form a permanent relationship," says Dr. Landis, who is professor of family sociology and research associate at the Institute of Human Development on the Berkeley campus of the University of California. But many young people, Dr. Landis points out, just aren't well enough prepared in an understanding of human relationships to know how to interpret danger signals, even though they may sense that something is wrong. One reason: There's so much folklore and miseducation about the realities of marriage and courtship. For example, there's the old saying that the course of true love never did run smooth." "Young people have heard that over and over again," says Dr. Landis. "Yet, if a love affair isn't running smoothly it's one of the most serious danger signals. Constant disagreement in other life situations (in business, for example) is usually recognized by the parties concerned as a sign that a relationship simply isn't workable. "But when it comes to a love affair, the folklore, the romantic illusion, misleads young people completely. So they tend to ignore the implications of the quarrels and dwell upon the pleasure of making up afterwards. "They think everything will be perfect after they get married. But their quarreling should tell them that there's something wrong." Uneven Course Another danger signal, often unrecognized, is the uneven work out, were more likely break their engagements, they married in spite of doubts, the marriages more likely to end in divorce. Natural Hesitancy "Now the evidence does suggest," says Dr. Landis, every minor doubt or hesitation about the future is a dangerousnal. "A certain measure of fanciety is natural for any thoughtful person making a lifetime cision. But many people — this is particularly true of the agers — seem to be almost pulsive about the idea of ting married." They rush marriage on the grounds they're in love, and there should get married. What often fails to recognize is you can be in love with different people you could possibly live with. 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The best objective evidence that the breaking of an affair and then getting together again is a danger signal comes from the research of Burgess and Wallin, who studied 1,000 engaged couples and then followed them through into marriage. The study revealed that those couples who had doubts about whether they should marry, and whether their marriages would Make It a Christmas She'll Always Remember! Shop at Mitchell's REGISTRY BRIDAL SERVICE • China - Glass - Silver • Greeting Cards - Gifts • Fine Selection - Quality Personalized Service Always For Assured Delivery, Reserve Your Choice Lazyaway Today! 166 W. LINCOLN AVE. DOWNTOWN ANAHEIM Every Eve. TUL. 9:00 BANKAMERICARD Free Parking In Rear Big Prize Offered to Seniors The Soroptimist Club of Anaheim has announced a citizen award to be made to a high school senior graduating in 1964. $2500 — an award merit — will be paid in a group sum. It is to be used at the discretion of the winning recipient, in any way he may decide which best further his aims and proposes in achieving his goal. It is an outright gift to be awarded by the Soroptimist Foundation in recognition of the outstanding contributions by young people in the fields of science, literature, education and public welfare. The Award has been established to encourage youth to develop the highest concept of patriism and more effective cooperation in home, community, national and international affairs. The best 250 words on why Responsibility as a Citizen in the Family, in the Community and in the World” will judged on local and regional works in North, South and Central Americas, final decisions to meet with the trustees of the Soroptimist Foundation. Willen Courts Barr, education officer, is distributing announcements of details this week high school principals in the Rheim area. Local judging will done on February 3, 1964 by DUSTY WINGERS — Publicity chairman, Mrs. Marylyn McBride, left, and Mrs. Gayla Anderson, president, meet at the latter’s Anakeim home to put finishing touches on decorations to be used by the group of former airline host for their “Christmas In the Stars” dinner-d Saturday at the Balboa Bay Club. University Women Association To See Stars at Christmas Meet University Women Association To See Stars at Christmas Meet The Anaheim Branch of the American Association of University Women has a few surprises in store for members who nit presents the theme "Christmas Star" at its meeting at 8 p.m. today in Trident Junior High School, 1800 W. Ball Rd. Reflecting on the importance of the stars will be guest speaker, Dr. Walter Brooks, professor of astronomy and chemistry at Santa Ana College, who will note any changes in the solar system during the past 2,000 years. Special entertainment will be provided by the Norfolk Trio of Magnolia High School. The students, Tom Dedrick, 17, Rick Washburn, 17, and Anna DeHoog 16, will sing seasonal music plus an original selection or two. The trio has appeared locally. A festive dessert is being planned by Mmes. Joseph Carver, Ronald Crow, Wilbur Christensen, Robert Hall, Robert Frederisy, L. G. Gulickson, W. E. Fushsia Unit Sets Meeting The Orange County Branch of the California National Fuchsia Society will meet at 6:30 p.m. Tuesday in George Washington School, Emily and Charliss Streets. This will be the annual Christmas potluck dinner with hams provided by the society. There will be a gift exchange and the installation of officers for the year 1964. Members are reminded to bring the small gift wrapped articles for the elderly patients at the County Hospital. Victors are invited to share in this Christmas party. ROSSMORE CATERS TO YOUR HOLIDAY WHIMS! 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The home and school is conducted by a non-sectarian group who give shelter, clothing and care to girls whose parents are unable to support them, children from broken homes and orphans. The founder of Girls' Town is Mrs. Essie Binckley West who has been active for many years in giving assistance to unfortunate girls. Guilders Plan Yule Gifts For Hospital Members of Martin Luther Hospital Guild will present a Christmas gift in the form of rocking chairs, crib bumpers, and a feeding table to the hospital for use in the nursery and pediatric departments, announced Guild President Mrs. Lyndale Manor of Fullerton. "We hope to soothe and comfort youngsters and infants frightened by unfamiliar surroundings." Orange County Legal Secretaries Association has "adopted" one of the girls. The young lady is eleven years old and her name is Terry Lee Howry. Terry is given financial assistance by the Orange County group and special gifts are sent to her on festive occasions. Orange County Legal Secretaries has helped financially in refurnishing and redecorating several of the dormitories at Girls' Town where girls from ages 2 to 16 make their home. A cavalcade of legal secretaries will make a trip to Girls' Town during Christmas week to present their gifts. Heading the group will be Mrs. Herbert T. Hunt of Santa Ana, President of Orange County Legal Secretaries Association. Members of Martin Luther Hospital Guild will present a Christmas gift in the form of rocking chairs, crib bumpers, and a feeding table to the hospital for use in the nursery and pediatric departments, announced Guild President Mrs. Lyndale Manor of Fullerton. "We hope to soothe and comfort youngsters and infants frightened by unfamiliar surroundings and separation from their parents by bringing a home situation into the hospital," says Mrs. Dolores Suter, Anaheim Director of Nursing Services at the hospital. 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