anaheim-gazette 1951-07-02

Motor Control—Mother Control Both Important in Scientific Child Care By DOROTHY ROE Associated Press Women's Editor The latest scientifically approved theory of child training is simply what grandma knew all along. Its principal ingredient is common sense—something which the theorists and child psychologists seem to have overlooked for about 25 years. There was the period, you may remember, when baby’s schedule was as sacred as the Ten Commandments. That was the era, along in the 1920s, when no young mother dared pick up her baby if he cried, and when helpless infants were waked in the middle of the night to take their bottles, so that the dimighty schedule might remain untarnished. Kissing or cuddling a baby was considered almost as great a crime as murder or arson, and the little moderns were raised in a sort of scientific vacuum, germ-free and preferably chilled by icy blasts from wide-open windows in the dead of winter. Then came the era when the pendulum swung as far as possible in the opposite direction. Schedules were scrapped and baby was king. You fed him when he cried, and if he didn’t feel like sleeping the whole family sat up all night. You could cuddle him to your heart’s content, but spanking was something from the torture annals of the Dark Ages. WAC who spent two years as a medical and surgical technician in McCloskey General Hospital, Temple, Texas, during World War II. Mrs. Carr, mother of a three-month-old son, Michael; wrote in the following lullaby and sent it in, as a protest against too much science: Modern Lullaby Go to sleep, darling, sweet peace to your soul. Mother will pray for your motor control, Check up on statistics on mental hygiene, Look at your brain through an X-ray machine. Hush-a-bye, darling, it’s mother’s ambition To get all your reflexes into condition; Mother is wise in the new sociology. Psychanalysis, endocrinology; She’d like to sing to you, but the psychologists Ban lullabies for the kids of the nation, Lest they develop a mother fixation. Make your good-nights scientific and formal, Don't run the risk of a complex abnormal. Angels are watching each nerve and gland; Hush-a-bye, lullaby, ain't science grand? It’s So Young and Pretty Marilyn Daigle In Concert Sunday Miss Marilyn Daigle, talented mezzo soprano and student of Albert Cranston of this city, appeared in concert yesterday afternoon at Melrose Abbey. She was assisted by Marjorie Cranston as accompanist. Carol Hochuli, violinist, who is studying under Vladimir Lenski was the second artist featured in the delightful program. Her accompanist was Betty Stockwell. First number was “Pensee Fugitive” by Bottman. In the initial voice group were "Cradle Song" by Schubert; "Because of Thy Great Bounty," by Hoffmeister; and "Melody in F" by Rubenstein. Carol Hochuli offered “Dance of the Russian Peasant” by Rubinoff. Second voice group featured "Caro Mio Ven" by Giordani; "Mit Elner Wasserillie" by Grieg; and The “Lovely Song My Heart Is Singing” by Goulding. Marjorie Cranston presented a plano prelude from a suite by De-Bussy followed by a third vocal group, "My Aim Faulk" by Lemon Then came the era when the pendulum swung as far as possible in the opposite direction. Schedules were scrapped and baby was king. You fed him when he cried, and if he didn't feel like sleeping the whole family sat up all night. You could cuddle him to your heart's content, but spanking was something from the torture annals of the Dark Ages. This period also marked the heyday of the "progressive" schools. The theory was that Junior must be free to express himself in any way he chose, even if it involved maiming his little playmates, and that under no circumstances must be forced to do anything he didn't want to do. If Junior didn't like to read, for instance, he didn't have to. This involved some embarrassment in some instances when Junior reached high school age and hadn't mastered the first reader, but the "progressive" educators stuck to their guns. All this now, happily, has passed, says Mrs. Jean Schick Grossman, director of Parent Education for the New York Play Schools association. member of the New York State Parent Education commission and author of two books on child raising, "Life With Family" and "Do You Know Your Daughter"? Says she: Parents soon found that the rigid schedules of 20 years ago didn't work. But that didn't mean parents were supposed to abdicate and let babies run the works. "Most people in the child study field will tell you today to strike a happy medium between grim schedules and complete pandemonium. Since each child is different, parents should be flexible and adjust the rules the way they work best. Cuddling babies is back in style again, and today nobody thinks the world will come to an end if you spank a child. The main thing is to give him a sense of security and confidence that he is loved—then if a spanking is needed to clear the air, it will do him no serious harm." Florence Jane Ovens, editor of publications for the National Kindergarten association, holds the It's So Young and Pretty 1282 10-20 Barbara Bell sew-rite perforated pattern No. 1282 is designed for sizes 10, 12, 14, 16, 18 and 20. Size 12 requires 4½ yards of 39-inch fabric. For this pattern, send 30c in coins, your name, address, pattern number and size wanted to Barbara Bell, The Anaheim Gazette, 367 W. Adams st., Chicago 6, ill. Mr. and Mrs. William P. Calhoun have just returned from six weeks visit in Kansas City and are now visiting Mrs. Calhoun's sister. Mr. and Mrs. Richard A. Coons of 7121 E. Ball rd., and the Coons' daughter's family Mr. Hurrah for the red, white, and blue! The gorious Fourth of July is nearly here again, the summer holiday when so many loyal Americans celebrate Independence Day independently and pack a picnic lunch. "Be it a trek to the beach or the mountains, or family style 'eats' in the back yard, appetites soar in the out of doors. Who can resist crisply fried joints of chicken, Southern style, or meaty spare ribs glistening with tangy barbecue sauce, or the all-American hot dog smoother with mustard? Cuddling babies is back in style again, and today nobody thinks the world will come to an end if you spank a child. The main thing is to give him a sense of security and confidence that he is loved—then if a spanking is needed to clear the air, it will do him no serious harm." Florence Jane Ovens, editor of publications for the National Kindergarten association, holds the same views: "The present theory in child raising is for a mother to use her own judgment. Of course if she hasn't any judgment, she'd better read up on the rules. But the best prescription is common sense." All this is presented as reassurance to Mrs. Catherine Grady Carr, of Spokane, Wash., a former Mr. and Mrs. William P. Calhoun have just returned from six weeks visit in Kansas City and are now visiting Mrs. Calhoun's sister, Mr. and Mrs. Richard A. Coons of 7121 E. Ball rd., and the Coon's daughter's family, Mr. and Mrs. J. Raymond Binns of 9411 S. Hanson ave., and their children, Clark and Candy. Also visiting Mrs. Binns is an old school friend from Kansas City, Miss Virginia Brown, who expects to make her home here. Another school friend of both girls is Mrs. Ruth Higgins and her son, Jerry, who is expected to arrive here by plane momentarily. PAPAYA and its PRODUCTS at their FINEST TROPICS TO YOU Supervised Growing and Scientific Processing KOESEL'S The MIRACLE FRUIT of the TROPICS FRESH PAPAYAS STOP FOR A TASTE ... and let us tell you how to prepare them Junction 101 Hiway & Manchester—Ph. Anaheim 4350 Open for your convenience until 8 p.m. daily Monaheim Gazette MONDAY, JULY 6, 1951 ANAHEIM, CALIFORNIA Social and Club Activities Pat Terrebonne — 2206 Bryn Daigle Cacert Sunday Marilyn Daigle, talented piano and student of Alton of this city, appeared yesterday afternoon in assisted by Marjorie as accompanist. Carol violinist, who is study-Vladimir Lenski was the artist featured in the program. Her accompanies Betty Stockwell. Member was "Pensee Fugi-Bottman. Initial voice group were song" by Schubert; "Beethy Great Bounty," by Berger; and "Melody in F" by Stein. Boehuli offered "Dance of on Peasant" by Rubinoff. Voice group featured "Ven" by Giordani; "Mitesserillie" by Grieg; and freely Song My Heart Is Joy Goulding. Cranston presented aude from a suite by Delowed by a third vocal Aim Faulk) by Lemon Birthday Party For Local Boy Mrs. R. Girard Baldassarre of 7192 E. Cerritos ave., hosted a party Saturday afternoon for 22 children in honor of the sixth birthday or her son Peter. Present in addition to Peter's younger sister, Patty, and his small brother Paul, were Hazel Micelli and Michael Canasty, both cousins from Midway City; Mrs. Mabel Heitman, who was Peter's kindergarten teacher at Savanna last year, and her daughter Elaine. Gifts were also received from guests: Mrs. O. M. Van Tine and her son Lee; Mrs. Harold Bailey and Loretta; Mrs. Thomas Baroldi and sons Thomas Anthony and Tommy; Mrs. Julian P. Black and daughter, Pauline Mary; Mrs. Walter Teagarden and Richard; Mrs. J. Raymond Binns and Clark and "Candy"; Mrs. J. E. Prauett and her son Ben Paul; Kathryn Smiley and Masters Gary Snavely, Dickie Karraker and Floyd Wettstein, all from Stanton. Mrs. Pete Baldassarre, paternal grandmother, assisted in serving the guests who were seated at the long party table in the dining room decorated with pink and find deviled ham, South American corned beef and little Vienna sausages. If you are hankering for a steak, a sirloin from Safeway will hit the spot. Buy 'em boneless or bone in as you like. They are cut from U. S. Good and Choice beef. Something new has been added to the citrus concentrates and it is the popular thirst quenching lemonade. This product is sweetened so that all you do is add water. One 6 oz. can of the frozen concentrate makes a quart of fresh flavored lemonade. TRICKS WITH LEMONADE Berry lemonade: To each glass of lemonade, add two tablespoons of crushed fresh berries such as raspberries, boysenberries or strawberries. Garnish with whole berries and serve with crushed ice. Lemon Frost: Fill a tall glass one-fourth full of cracked ice, add lemonade to fill the glass three-fourths full and frost the top with a spoonful of stiffly beaten egg white sweetened slightly and flavored with lemon juice. Pineapple: Take advantage of Alpha Beta's parade of summer time values and pick up a can of Stokely's sliced pineapple. Add a bit of the juice to the lemonade and generous chunks of pineapple. Garnish with maraschino cherries and fresh mint leaves. Farewell Party Given by Sobeys An ice cream social and square dance was given Friday night by Mr. and Mrs. George R. Sobey, owners of the attractive trailer park at 913 S. Palm ave., for 100 residents and guests in honor of Mr. and Mrs. Frank J. Baar and their 14 year old son, Maynard, who have lived in the park for three years. The guests presented Maynard with a fishing rod and reel. The hosts served home made vanilla ice cream with chocolate cake and coffee. This is the first square dance given by the Sobeys this summer. Last year such a gathering took place every week at the Orange Grove Trailer Park. The S Another Sensational selling of crisp, colorful cottons for about-town, about the house! Reg. 3.95 Another Sensational selling of crisp, colorful cottons for about-town, about the house! Reg. 3.95 DRESSES 2.00 A gay assortment of carefree cotton dresses... for you to live in through long summer days! Shop Early Tuesday! COTTON SHOP . . . SECOND FLOOR CLEARANCE Munsingwear FOUNDETTESBRIEF PANTIES Discontinued numbers, terrific reductions ... they're priced for a quick clean-up! PANTIE GIRDLE No. 4252 in white, nylon elastic net, satin panels, reg. 7.50 and No. 4240 in white, power net, satin panels, reg. 7.50. 3.88 PANTIE GIRDLE No. 408 in white, tissue weight, two-way knit, reg. 4.95 BRIEF PANTIES of fine quality rayon knit in white sizes 4-7, tailored style. At a trek to the beach or mountains, or family style in the back yard, apperior in the out of doors. Can resist crisply fried chicken, Southern style, tiny spare ribs glistening tangy barbecue sauce, or American hot dog smoothing mustard? The whole family enjoys a hard fashioned picnic and is by gating with gusto! HAM WHAT AM Mmm, delicately flavored and can be baked conveniently before and provides no wonderful sandwiches for the but several dinners at home. Leave it to Ananeim to the "ham what am" with cured he-man taste thru kuru. It's the Bridgeford heart ham, of course, mace Helm's Bridgford Packing will find it at your favor-cket. Speaking of ham, it makes basis for this campers' cas- AMPERS' CASSEROLE A mushroom soup Colespoons flour Stirred Swiss cheese Chopped cooked ham Cups cooked noodles Dine the mushroom soup the flour and generous of grated cheese. Stir over until cheese is melted. Dine with the ham and noodles into greased baking dish. MEMO FOR VACATIONISTS Whether you go to the beach or the mountains, you will find conveniently located Safeway Stores on the way and at principal resort areas, such as Big Bear, Bishop, and Avalon. Safeway's canned veal loaf is excellent sliced cold, and on the shelf beside it, you will Our Ananeim food markets are crammed with good things to eat that tote along well to a picnic. Alpha Beta features plump weiners and a weiner extension fork with wood handle to make campfire cookery easy. The tangy kosher sliced dill pickles are a natural with these. Pick up a dish of macaroni salad from Alpha Beta's big delicatessen department, a chilled watermelon and the picnic plans itself. And Alpha Beta stocks Golden State ice cream by the half gallon, a real saving and delicious eating to cap the climax of any meal. Cream cheese and nut bread sandwiches fill up the empty spaces and here is how a big loaf of bread is quickly and easily made: QUICK NUT BREAD 2 cups flour ½ cup sugar 4 teaspoons baking-powder 1 teaspoon salt 5 tablespoons shortening 1 whole egg Yolk of 1 egg 1 cup milk ½ cup finely chopped walnuts Mix and sift the dry ingredients into a large bowl. Work in the shortening as for biscuit. Beat the eggs well, combine with milk and fold in to-gether with the nut meats. Mix thoroughly and pour into a greased bread pan. Let stand at room temperature for 20 minutes, and bake at 400 degrees for about 50 minutes. When cold, slice thin and spread with date and cream cheese filling. Here it is! Our eagerly awaited JULY CLEARANCE of BETTER DRESSES Reg. 17.95 Now Reg. 25.00 Now Reg. 29.95 Now 10^95 14^95 17^95 Three price groups . . . a wonderful selection of smart styles, popular fabrics and colors . . . but for most satisfactory selections . . . shop early Tuesday morning. FASHIONS—SECOND FLOOR BUBBLE BATH 20 packages to box, asst. fragrances, special for Tuesday only, Box.....39¢ Late Afternoon Services Unite Mary Ann Roth-John Vuksanovich In Fullerton Soft shades of pink were used throughout the pretty wedding that united Miss Mary Ann Roth, daughter of Thelma T. Roth of Roosevelt ave., Fullerton and John Vuksanovich, son of Mr. and Mrs. William J. Vuksanovich of this city. The Fullerton First Christian church was the setting for the double ring nuptials solemnized by the Rev. Carlson C. Buck. Given in marriage by her brother, Al Roth, the bride wore an exquisite pink lace gown over taffeta. The full skirt fell from a long sleeved fitted bodice with a high neckline. A halo of pink lace held her fingertip length veil and she carried a bouquet of blue carnations with white stephanolis. Mrs. Al Roth was matron of honor and wore turquoise lace with a matching halo and a bouquet of pink carnations. Soloist was Norman Stingle with Larry King as organ accordionist. Reception was held after the ceremony where Mrs. Cal Stewart and Miss Daisey Vuksanovich assisted in serving the beautifully decorated wedding cake. Mrs. Charles Cariker was at the punch bowl and Miss Marilyn Clark tended the guest book. Mrs. Roth wore a navy blue sheer afternoon dress with pink accessories and a corsage of pink roses and Mrs. Vuksanovich wore a rose dress with white accessories and a corsage of yellow roses. For traveling the bride chose a lilac suit with white accessories. She is a graduate of Fullerton high school and Junior college. The bridegroom was graduated from Fullerton high school and attended Junior college in that city. After a Catalina honeymoon they will reside in Fullerton. The SQR Store What could be more timely? CLEARANCE Blue and Gray Denim National selling all cotton for out the house! Reg. 3.95 ESSES 2.00 gay assortment of free cotton dresses... to live in through summer days! 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