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Dear Abby... What's It To You, Buddy? by Abigail Van Buren DEAR ABBY: You've probably heard of Forever Amber and Jezebel? Well, I know a woman who could give them instructions. She is 40 and has been married four times. She has had kids by this one and that one. She got a quick Mexican divorce by mail order and married a 28-year-old kid. She led about her age and passed off her children as nieces and nephews. Is there any way this kid can retract his marriage if he gets proof that she roped him in with false figures and facts? THE KID'S FRIEND DEAR FRIEND: The "kid" is 28 years old and should know enough to see a lawyer if he wants to dissolve his marriage. An annulment is in order if the "bride" misrepresented herself, providing the "kid" wants one. DEAR ABBY: My little brother is six and I am eleven. He has this ragged blanket which he totes around and sleeps with every night. When we try to take it away from him he cries and says he can't sleep without it. We are at our wits' end. What shall we do? BERNADINE DEAR BERNADINE: Let him keep the blanket as he wants it. Just be sure it is kept clean. DEAR ABBY: I am a boy of 15 but my mother thinks I am 5. The other day a girl called and asked my mother if I could come to her birthday dinner. My mother accepted for me and told me I was going. I told my mother I think she should have told the girl it was up to me and then let me accept if I wanted to go, which I would nave done anyway. POW! My mother almost flipped. She said I had no respect for her. Please put a kind word in your column for me if you think I'm right. KEN DEAR KEN: Your mother should have given you the opportunity to accept (or refuse) your own invitation . . . BUT, it probably wasn't what you said, it was the way that you said it. HOW did you say it? Think hard. DEAR ABBY: I am a 19-year-old girl who has fallen in love with a man who is much older, but this is not my problem. He has a 23-year-old son who thinks of me not as a future stepmother but rather as a target for flirtations. He lives with his father now and nothing has been said about where he will live after his father and I are married. I don't want to cause conflict between father and son but Justice Douglas Tells Of Tibetan History (Escape of the Dalai Lama, god-king of Tibet, from the Chinese Reds to sanctuary in India has dealt Communist China "a tremendous political setback in her imperialistic plans for Central Asia," according to U. S. Supreme Court Associate Justice William O. Douglas. Writing from a background of firsthand knowledge of Tibet, its people and history, he states that so long as the Dalai Lama lives, Red China's efforts to control the Tibetans will be folled. A member of the U.S. Supreme Court since 1939, Justice Douglas is almost equally well known as world traveler, explorer and author. By WILLIAM O. DOUGLAS Associate Justice U. S. Supreme Court (Written for UPI) When the Red Chinese armies moved into Tibet in 1951, the Dalai Lama left Lhasa and went to Yatung near the Indian border. In August of that year I was on my way to Yatung to meet him and try to persuade him to quit Tibet and establish his headquarters in up to me and then let me accept if I wanted to go, which I would have done anyway. POW! My mother almost flipped. She said I had no respect for her. Please put a kind word in your column for me if you think I'm right. DEAR KEN: Your mother should have given you the opportunity to accept (or refuse) your own invitation... BUT, it probably wasn't what you said, it was the way that you said it. HOW did you say it? Think hard. DEAR ABBY: I am a 19-year-old girl who has fallen in love with a man who is much older, but this is not my problem. He has a 23-year-old son who thinks of me not as a future stepmother but rather as a target for flirtations. He lives with his father now and nothing has been said about where he will live after his father and I are married. I don't want to cause conflict between father and son but doubt if we three can live harmoniously together. Have you some ideas? DEAR DEE DEE: I have some "ideas" and if you suspect your fliance's son also has a few, under no conditions should you three live under the same roof. He's old enough to leave his father's nest and in this case three is definitely a crowd. CONFIDENTIAL TO MARRYING SOON: If you plan to change him—prepare to be disappointed. Want to be popular? Get ABBY'S booklet, "What Every Teenager Wants To Know." Send 25 cents and a large, self-addressed, stamped envelope to Abby, care of this newspaper. For a personal reply, write to ABBY in care of this paper. Enclose a self-addressed, stamped envelope. (Distributed by McNaught Syndicate, Inc.) Justice Douglas Tells Of Tibetan History When China was strong Tibet was forced by Chinese military powers to be subservient. Tibet never has been a part of China, although China always showed Tibet-on Chinese maps as a Chinese province. For centuries China tried to keep out of Tibet all foreigners who might menace China from the rear. China for decades kept control of Tibet's foreign affairs. And she continued to keep Chinese influence strong by making generous donations to Buddhist monasteries and by pensioning many of the lamas. Since 1700 A. D. Tibet, with no embassies or legations around the world, has been largely dependent on China for international affairs, and became a pawn in Chinese politics. Even before the Red regime came into power, dalal lamas did not fare well under Chinese suzerainty. During the two or more centuries of her interference in Tibetan affairs, China has acted ruthlessly toward the dalal lamas. She threw some in jail. She had other dalal lamas murdered. Many dalal lamas never lived beyond eighteen years. Until a dalal lama is eighteen, he is under a regent or tutor. When the Chinese mur- By WILLIAM O. DOUGLAS Associate Justice U. S. Supreme Court (Written for UPI) When the Red Chinese armies moved into Tibet in 1931, the Dalai Lama left Lhasa and went to Yatung near the Indian border. In August of that year I was on my way to Yatung to meet him and try to persuade him to quit Tibet and establish his headquarters in India, a country where religions flourish. Before I could reach Yatung the Dalai Lama returned to Lhasa. The pressures on him were great, for Lhasa is to Buddhists pretty much what Rome is to Catholics. Hundreds of Lamas met at Yatung to keep the Dalai Lama from leaving Tibet. Several hundred lay down on the airport so that planes could neither land nor take off. Others manned the pass leading down to India to bar his passage. Finally he consulted an oracle and decided to return to Lhasa. It was important to the Chinese that the Dalai Lama return to Tibet. For he combines temporal and ecclesiastical power. He is king and also a god to the Tibetan people. As long as he was in Tibet, the Chinese hoped to control the country through him. If he was obstinate and non-cooperative, they would liquidate him. That had been done before to obstreperous and independent Dalai Lamas. Tibet Long A Troublespot The Mongols extended their authority over Tibet in 1200 A.D. Actual Chinese rule began in 1700 A.D. China was always nervous about Tibet because Tibet is on China's western border—an area that has long been troublesome. But the Chinese never have maintained their hold on Tibet for long. When China was weak and had serious problems at home or on the international front, Tibet always pushed their Chinese rulers for international affairs, and became a pawn in Chinese politics. Even before the Red regime came into power, dalai lamas did not fare well under Chinese suzerainty. During the two or more centuries of her interference in Tibetan affairs, China has acted ruthlessly toward the dalai lamas. She threw some in jail. She had other dalai lamas murdered. Many dalai lamas never lived beyond eighteen years. Until a dalai lama is eighteen, he is under a regent or tutor. When the Chinese murdered a dalai lama, they named their puppet as the regent. Through control of the regent they controlled Tibet. Rule Through Reincarnation The Buddhists believe in reincarnation. The theory is that when a person dies, his spirit looks around until it finds a suitable newborn babe to possess. The Chinese, through the oracles named by them, had complete control over the process of finding into what baby the spirit of the deceased dalai lama had entered. Acting through their oracles they could pick a child who would best serve their interests. If there was a tribe whose support they wanted, the oracle would conveniently find the new dalai lama among the young boys of that tribe. Perhaps an area was hostile to the Chinese. Then they would placate it by finding the new dalai lama in that region. Or the Chinese might desire to raise the prestige of a particular family in Tibet. That could easily be done by finding the reincarnated dalai lama among its new offspring. The Chinese used this doctrine of reincarnation over and over again to play politics with the high office of the Buddhist Church. The Panchen Lama is second in the hierarchy of the Buddhist Church. He too is chosen with the help of the oracles who manipulate the theory of reincarnation. This is why Red China has suffered a tremendous political setback in her imperialistic plans for Central Asia. EX-FAT LADY FADES AWAY — Dolly Dimple (right) walks on Cloud Nine in San Francisco as she relates one of those typical hard luck stories — about how she got sick, lost weight and couldn’t hold down her old job. Mrs. Dimple, a circus fat lady, suffered a heart attack in 1950 and was told to “diet or die.” Diet she did. She reduced her 555-pounds (left) to 118. Her pre-diet measurements were 6½-7-7 (feet). She now curves the other way at 34-28-36 (inches). Three states are losing population: Mississippi, Oklahoma and Arkansas. The others are either growing or holding steady. One ounce of atoms completely converted into energy would produce enough electricity to last a city of 500,000 for one year. Although about the size of a chicken, the Australian kiwi lays one-pound eggs, about eight times heavier than the average hen’s. Rankin’s Orangefair department store will be officially opened May, according to J. Lawrence Sherk, president and general manager. Located on Orangethorpe Spadra, Orangefair Center in Hilerton, the new store contains more than 40,000 square feet of shopping space and offers the most Drug Store Sued for Girl's Eye Damage SANTA ANA (OCNS) — In response to an eye caused by a salve is factor in a $20,000 injury suit has been filed in Superior Court by an Orange man on behalf of daughter. Leonard D. Butcher, the father of Judy Ann Butcher, 10831 Batavia, is alleging that the girl was damaged by a prescription filled at the Orange Drug Store, 964 Tustin, Oran. Named as the defendants the owners of the drug store, Robert and Edsel G. Annis. The plaintiff claims his Shirley, took a prescription pared by a doctor for an eye sore to the drug store. It is alleged that the prescription was negligently prepared. Although not marked, it was to be used for exterior conditions and not the eye. 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Everett Houkisworth, general manager of the new store, states that no expense has been spared to obtain the finest equipment and facilities including the advanced aisle arrangements which permit easier departmental identification and faster traffic flow. The incorporation of an S and H green stamp redemption center is one of the most important customer services that will be found at Rankin’s Orangefair. It will open at a later date. Also noted is the addition of a men’s furnishings department which will carry sport coats, slacks and men's accessories. This is the first store of the original Orange County Rankin’s which was founded in 1891 in Santa Ana. It is expected to rival the parent store in merchandise volume and sales. Preparations are understood to be almost complete for a grand opening which will include door prizes. A recent survey by the Health News Institute showed that two-thirds of all prescriptions filled in the U.S. were priced at three dollars and under. 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